Thursday, October 4, 2012

How do I dance and not be tesed?


Question


How do I dance and not be tesed?


Answer


If you mean that you do ClassicalContemporary etc... and you dont want to be teased because you are a boy doing a quotgirliequot thing... then take the advise of a male dancer friend of mine... He used to say he danced because he was one bloke we are Aussies amoungst a group of girls. brbrFor him it meant that he had more chance of getting girlfriends. Incidently that is why he joined... as it turned out he happened to be very talented too! brbrThere is no hard a fast way to not be teased. I was teased because I danced when I was a girl. People do not understand it if you are different. The thing to remember is that School and High School do pass and when you go out into the real world you will find like minded people, who will not only NOT tease you but they will support you. If you can find just one friend in the here and now that can do that then hang out with that person doesnt matter if they are male or female. brbrSometimes, we have to accept that we will be teased, because we are different. But that if we just laugh along a Little not take it too seriously and if it gets too much, make sure you talk to an adult about it. brbrYour Dance teacher might be able to put you in touch with the local Dance company and you can talk to the male dancers about their experiences and how they coped.brbrMy little brother gave up because he was teased too much and it was a great shame because he really was very good. The world needs more male dancers and good dedicated dancers so dont give up unless you dont love it anymore.



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